lets talk love..(winks)^^

in my psychology class, my prof always use cruxie as his example. It's fun because like crush is fun to talk about. any, this week, we were talking about emotions. So we talked about love, :D and i wanna share..(YEY)

we defined passionate love as..

emotion of intense longing for union with another person

so, how do u know if your inlove? here are some indicators:

Cognitive indicators:

• intrusive thoughts of the other person (involuntary thinking) eg. while shopping, he/she just entered your mind..:)
• idealization of the other (you see the good more than the bad)
• desire to know the other
• desire to be known (you want him/her to know you as well)
• interdependence

Action tendencies:

• Studying the other (you want to know as much as you can)
• service to the other (lol, what ever kind of service?..)
• determining the other's feeling ("do you feel the same way about me?")
• maintaining closeness (you want to spend time with one another)

this has become my checklist (LOL, im kidding)..^^ just wanna share this fun and USEFUL info..