if a guy cheats, does it mean he doesn't love the girl he's with?

and the results on my poll, (voted upon by 14 people)... the YES have it..

the choices are yes, no and idk.. the yes won by 7 votes, no with 4 votes and the i dont know with 3 votes..:D

i like this poll, but its not really that accurate. LOL, any, it was fun knowing what other think (or what they picked)..there's a new poll by the way,. if you have time please answer it!!

when love is right..

"For love to be right, it has to be shared by two right people at the right time. without crushing the heart of somebody else. " - from a local show..(i watched last night)

so how does one know if its the right time? and its the right person your inlove with?

i'll be back in a week

im going back to the university now.. I'll drown myself in all things possible (studies and friends), Hopefully i'll be okay. :D

I'll write again in a week.. for now, im gonna keep records of thoughts, experiences and just about everythig so i can share it with you when i get back..

Hopefully, my sharing can help you in any way possible :D take care

i hate having a broken heart

WHY do i have to be heart broken again?

i hate feeling this way.. i feel like a crap..UGH, and i have waited for a guy that i like for a moth only to fid out that when i tlaked to him, he has a girlfriend already.. (i wanna freaking cry) what's worse is even if its like this, i still wanna be there for him,. im lossing it..

How do u deal with a broken heart?,, help me please..

lets talk love..(winks)^^

in my psychology class, my prof always use cruxie as his example. It's fun because like crush is fun to talk about. any, this week, we were talking about emotions. So we talked about love, :D and i wanna share..(YEY)

we defined passionate love as..

emotion of intense longing for union with another person

so, how do u know if your inlove? here are some indicators:

Cognitive indicators:

• intrusive thoughts of the other person (involuntary thinking) eg. while shopping, he/she just entered your mind..:)
• idealization of the other (you see the good more than the bad)
• desire to know the other
• desire to be known (you want him/her to know you as well)
• interdependence

Action tendencies:

• Studying the other (you want to know as much as you can)
• service to the other (lol, what ever kind of service?..)
• determining the other's feeling ("do you feel the same way about me?")
• maintaining closeness (you want to spend time with one another)

this has become my checklist (LOL, im kidding)..^^ just wanna share this fun and USEFUL info..

Do the songs you like reflects the something hiding deep inside of you?

why do people like the songs that they like? aside from the beat, tone, meaning and all.

i think at some point, songs offer a sort of comfort. specially when you can relate to it, it makes you feel that your not alone and a lot of people are going through what your experiencing.

songs do tend to inspire you too. I dont know, when i listen to my playlist, it makes me feel that somehow i can do things and i gives me hope. (which is weird coz my fave songs are now like melancholy-as my best girl said) :D

so what are your fave songs?

What i captured in a week

Groupie pic on Shakies..(Jane's 16th bday)

from left to right: Jane, Iana, Dana, Jarold and me..

I just love birthdays. Especially when im hanging out with the people I like. Jane's bday remids me of my age. (all of them are younger than me. I'm 18)

Sometimes, when a friend of mine celebrates his/her birthday, it makes me nostalgic. I think of what i did when i was their age..^^ mixed emotions...